I talked with my friend from middle school this morning (all morning) and she was talking to me about all the bullshit drama she is going thru over he say, she say type mess and she was so upset about the things that had gone down, over people in her "circle" and her best friend that she's having issues with. It made me start thinking...I have a one friend policy. Seriously, I have at least one friend per year. The friendships never ended in a bad way, exactly, it's just like a mutual termination and we eventually fall off but that doesn't mean all contact is shunned. If I see them out and about, I'll still say wassup or something. Also, if I do hang out with more than one person, it is usually maybe only one or at the max, 2 other people at a time. I know some people out there probably think I am a "lame" or something but if that means that I am less involved with pettiness and extra shit then so be it. When I get phone calls like that and have those conversations I'm grateful for my self implemented policy. Yes, I have "friends" on Facebook but when has that ever really counted? Having one friend is less of a hassle, less chaos, it's cheaper, and it is just easier to plan when going out. Stick with my one friend policy and I can almost guarantee you will be happier!!!!!!
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February 2020
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