You ever have the biggest crush on someone and then you see them a few years later and realize they aren't as sexy as you thought they were? This topic has been heavy on my mind all week now. There have been a couple people that has happened to me with and I look back like, wow, why did I think you were so cute and what did I see in you?! I'm not saying I was the best looking back then, actually, I think I have just NOW grown into my looks but I swear the people I dated and messed around with were the opposite. They started off looking good and then backtracked somehow as the years went on. For instance, there was this guy, (I'll call him "W"), and I thought he was the total package. "W" was handsome, the sex was great, he was a good friend to me, and everything else. I recently just seen him on social media and realized he is not the same guy I was attracted to. Also, I don't try to be this shallow type and base a person's character off of their looks but what is wrong with keeping up with yourself and grooming? He looked like a mess and I'm sure he is still an awesome guy but he really let himself go... I kept looking at his pictures wondering what had I seen in him all those years ago. I mean, his beard was all scraggly and he grew his hair out and was wild, and actually reading some of his posts, he's kind of an asshole and blah. He's always been a jerk and that was kind of part of his charm in my eyes back then, (man, was I young and into that), but now it's just kind of annoying. We haven't spoken in years and I'm sure we would still have cool conversation if we were to talk today but I just think he should stop wandering around looking like a caveman and get back in action. Unless, he's into that look then so be it, I just hope it's not out of laziness. I also had that happen with a girl I was talking to, but that's another story...
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February 2020
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