I was searching around for blog topics to write about because I was drawing a blank and needed motivation. I came across a site that had 81 pointless blog starters until in the end when it said something about blogging being easy. It went on to say that thousands of blogs are created daily and anyone can start a blog in as little as five minutes but few people make blogs that matter. It got me thinking about how that is exactly right. If you're coming to my site hoping to just read about my day, and my errands I had to run, and how my husband did something to piss me off then I'm sorry, this isn't for you. I am not writing some "bubblegum" bullshit in these posts, maybe every once in awhile I'll write something of that sort, but very rarely do I. I like to write about things that I am deeply passionate about, things that'll make you sit and think for a minute. I like for people to take away something from my site, anything at all, hopefully it'll be that I am not just some 20 year old who cares about shopping and partying and carefree living, no. I actually am very aware of the world around me, sure I do like to party, A LOT sometimes, but that is not my complete lifestyle and I definitely don't think like I am just some party girl who doesn't know shit. I like my posts to be relatable above all else. I try to dig deep within myself to write about things I believe are on other people's minds, as well as heavily on mine, even if it is subconsciously. I am passionate about my blogging and I hope my readers can see that.
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Winthrop
12/3/2014 09:06:14 am
your blogs inspire me. It's not often that I miss them, but your last few really brought some realism to my life. You are an amazing writer and should never give up.
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Breigh
12/3/2014 10:11:47 am
Thank you that really motivates me to keep writing. I never really know if people read on my site, I just blog hoping someone stumbles across it.
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Winthrop
12/3/2014 01:31:52 pm
Your blog about fixing your maraige hit me hard. My wife cheated on me and I thought I lost her and the world. It was hard for me, and I felt as if there was no purpose to live. All I could do is think about them together and if she would do it again. I forgave her, but every night I feel like there's no purpose for me because she was so easily taken away from me. I admire you and your husband for working through it. The only advice I have is for the both of you is to never let go of what made you fall in love.
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Breigh
12/6/2014 04:16:57 am
Did you and your wife work it out or decide to end it? My marriage, I feel, was never really in that "honeymoon" phase, and if it was, it ended too quickly. After that huge fight, it made me realize a lot and I almost lost him over my dumb actions. We are making it work and we will get through this because we are meant to be together. As for you and your wife, if you are still together, just remember, FOR BETTER OR WORSE. This was the worst but it's already done and it happened, no taking it back. All you can do is try to work with her and find the things that you enjoy doing together, it's like go back to the things you did when you were dating and why you fell in love and wanted to marry her. Cheating is hard on anyone, even harder in a marriage if it happens, but true love will persevere and conquer all in the end.
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Winthrop
12/7/2014 09:22:53 am
We did not stay together. We got a divorce and she ended up with they guy she was cheating on me with. To my knowledge she's been with him ever since then. There was an attempt to work on us, but she never let go of him and her affair. So I called it quits. Leave a Reply. |
About the AuthorI got the idea to create a blog in December 2014 on a random type of day.Writing has always been therapeutic; the only way I could communicate clearly, in actual words instead of struggling to unscramble the swirl of images, metaphors & analogies that is my thought process. In short, Archives
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