I had this conversation, once, where I said that I didn't really like the saying of feeling "warm and fuzzy" inside as a means to describe a person in love or whatever the case may be. No, I want my soul to feel hugged. I know it's a little strange to say but that's how I feel it should be with another person you love and care deeply for. They should give you that feeling of safeness and comfort. I don't like the term "warm and fuzzy" because, to me, it seems too temporary and fleeting of a feeling and it doesn't seem stable enough. No, I want that feeling of when someone hugs you after you've been falling apart inside, for however long, and their hug seems to make everything okay again, even if it's for the moment. It's that sense of melting into their embrace and being able to exhale finally. It doesn't have to necessarily be contained to just a "partner" but anyone you hold close to your heart. I'm sure that the act of hugging helps to release some sort of feel good chemicals in your brain, just as cuddling does, and that only makes it even more gratifying to experience that inside yourself. Also, don't quote me on that about it causing a chemical reaction in the brain, I didn't take the time to research it this time, but it seems like it would make sense and be just as true. If someone can kind of translate those feelings and feed it to my soul then I'm here for it. When I say I want my soul to feel hugged, rather than warm and fuzzy, I'm saying I want to feel at ease and comfortable enough to "fall apart" around you and trust in you through and through, instead of this "cutesy," giggly type thing of warm and fuzziness that leaves your body soon enough. Yes, I think my soul being "hugged" is something I could never take for granted.
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